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The In and Out

Wedding Venue

The grandeur of the Grade II* listed, the In & Out (Naval and Military Club) is the perfect setting for a social or corporate events and is available for private hire for members and non-members. Great care has been taken in the clubs banquet rooms to retain all the original features that adorn the magnificent staterooms which can be designed to fit all needs, with a range of style and size that accommodate meetings for as few as four, to a reception or wedding for as many as 300 guests.

Whether hosting a private board meeting, a multi-day seminar, or celebrate an intimate special occasion, the clubs team of professionals will handle every detail. From beginning to end, the impeccably trained team will ensure that every aspect of your event is executed seamlessly. The quality and value offered by the Club is second to none.

What makes The In and Out a unique wedding venue?

Entrust your intimate soiree up to grand scale entertaining to The In & Out Club which is beautifully located on a private corner of St James’s Square, London. Licensed to host both Civil Ceremonies, Partnership and celebrations up to 300 for members or non-members. The Club provides a magnificent venue offering an impressive range of grand rooms for a variety of occasions from an intimate dinner, elaborate reception to your big day, making the celebration truly memorable. The clubs dedicated events manager together with experienced banqueting staff will guide you effortlessly from the initial planning stages through to the day.

Offering an array of luxurious rooms filled with history, large windows, beautiful paintings, sparkling chandeliers, sweeping staircases, double height ceilings and spectacular fireplaces leading out to a secluded outdoor Courtyard which is a sheer delight for taking scenic photographs, alfresco soirées and receptions. The other distinctive privileges include private access to the stunning adjacent St James Square gardens which make a spectacular setting for photographs and the option of a late license so you can enjoy the dancefloor longer! Then to continue the celebrations the club offers the opulence of reserving additional bedrooms for guests to enjoy or spend your special night in the luxury bridal suite.

Where is The In and Out located?

The In & Out (Naval and Military Club),
No.4 St James's Square, London SW1Y 4JU

Top facilities

Disabled Access

Live Band Facilities

Wedding Coordinator Available


Based on 15 reviews
The In and Out

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I just wanted to say a huge thanks for making Suzanne and Sam's day so perfect. They were really happy with everything and that's down to all of you! I hope you all have a great week ahead and I look forward to working with you again, hopefully in the near future. All the best,

The In and Out

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Many thanks to you and your team for helping to make our day so magical. I really got my fairy tale wedding! I was SO pleased with the way my vision for the decorations turned out. Warm regards

The In and Out

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A huge thank you for all of your help on the lead up to our wedding. We are extremely grateful for the effort you made to ensure our special day ran smoothly. Dalia and your team executed everything superbly and made all of our family and friends feel welcome at the Club. Many thanks

The In and Out

5.0 5 0.5

We had a great day! Please extend sincere thanks to the fantastic chefs / bar / serving staff - and yourself and Dalia - for all your efforts on the day.

The In and Out

5.0 5 0.5

I am finally recovering from the fog of our event....and I just wanted to give everyone at the In & Out a massive thank you from Tom and I both. Our guests were blown away by the venue, the food and the overall greatness of everything. What a fabulous party!

The In and Out

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We were very pleased overall with how the day went, in particular the general atmosphere. The staff were most helpful during the evening and we could not have asked for better or discrete service. They responded well to our requests on the spur of the moment and were a pleasure to deal with. They we...

The In and Out

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Just a quick note to say how impressively well organised everything was at the In & Out. You and your team did an amazing job. So efficient, and apparently effortless. Everything happened just when you said it would. and your staff moved silently and invisibly to make everything go like clockwork. W...

The In and Out

5.0 5 0.5

The wedding was absolutely brilliant. Some of our guests said that it was the best wedding that they'd ever been to. Hurrah! The food was exceptional and noted by a lot of people. The service was superb. The co-ordination of course utterly brilliant.

The In and Out

5.0 5 0.5

I honestly think it could not have been better. Everyone had a great time. The reception in the lnner Hall was wonderful. Afternoon tea in the Coffee Room really set the day off and the ceilidh and dancing into the night in the lnner Hall was simply marvellous. I thought the hog roast really hit the...

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Facilities & information


Free broadband access (wifi)


Swimming pool

100 - 150 Guests Capacity

50 - 100 Guests Capacity

50 Guests or Less Capacity

Awards / Descriptions

Bars, Cafes & Other


Capacity: 200 Plus guests

Changing Room for Guests

Confetti Permitted

Disabled Access



Humanist / Celebrant Ceremony

Outdoor Ceremony

Reception Only


Wheelchair Access

Dining Options

Alcohol License

Buffet Catering

Corkage Option

In House Catering

Seated Catering

Evening Entertainment

Dance floor

DJ Facilities

Entertainment licence

Evening reception facilities

Live Band Facilities

Marquee available

Staff Assistance

Wedding Coordinator Available


Wedding Couple

Wedding Guests

Wedding Party



Extra info

Wedding Capacity: 150

Wedding Capacity Civil License: 150

Wedding Capacity Indoor: 150

Nearest Train Station: Piccadily Circus


+44 (0)20 7827 5723

No. 4, St. James's Square, London, London, LondonSW1Y 4JU, United Kingdom

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